Saturday, May 16, 2009

Love or Friendship?

if someone ask you,
which one will you choose between love and friendship?
it's just a simple question, but the answer is hard for almost all the people.

some will choose love,
some will choose friendship,
some will choose neither.

but, i believe people who choose 'friendship' and 'neither' are not more than 5%.

most of them will choose love,
i've seen so many friends choose this one so don't ask me why i'm so sure about this.
*if you say it's wrong, then just skip this stupid article of mine*

i hate to say this and i know that i should not care about this because i'm not one of them,
not one of your close friends,
not the one who has the right to choose.

i'm just an outsider.

but, love is not everything. and so are friends,

one thing i'm sure of.
friend is a thing because you can't live without them.
though, most of them (the one chooses 'love') would say 'i can live on this earth by just having love' *and i would say again, just skip this article if you don't like to read it*

my heart hurts, a lot, it's just likely... a wound has opened again.
i... wanna cry, but i can't,
i... wanna mad at someone, but i can't,

i can't really understand and i still can't believe it, that one of my friends leaves her friends just to chase her 'love'.

is it 'love is everything' for them?
PS : 'them' refers to people who choose love.

i'm not mad at the them because they choose 'love' than 'friendship' but i'm mad at them because they forget how their friends are around them, sharing the time when they're sad, happy, mad, angry together.
how their friends support them for everything.
and they just.. leave after all the things friends gave to them, just because friends telling you to choose one of them. (in some cases, friends don't tell them to choose, but they choose)


i will be happy

if seeing them struggling in order to endure for love and friendship.
*it's true, from the deepest of my heart*

if they keep making their friends believe if everything is just ok,
and they'll be friends forever.


least but not the last,
i bet ALL of you have ever heard the word
Ex-Boyfriend or Ex-Girlfriend
but,

have you ever heard the word
Ex-Friend or Ex-Best Friend ?


think about it.

cheers,



NB : feel free to leave any comments.

3 comments:

  1. I think you have lots of grammar errors...
    I hate your friend that you subjected

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  2. if you have time to check mine,
    then i suggest you to check yours first.

    and
    i don't tell you to leave comment about that, but about what you're thinking about this problem.

    if you think this article has many errors on it (and is stupid), just skip it.

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  3. Nice Post

    hahaha~

    It hurt..,

    i know

    me and the other 4 also...
    we are inside [bestfriend] friends for her.,
    but..

    haa..

    its complicated.

    really2 dissapointed with her.,

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